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Friday, 30 May 2008

Back from my holiday!

long 5 hour drives are just lovely for contemplating the corkscrew turns of life. Must be an effect of the endless winding roads extending into the horizon.

This journey thought me alot. About myself, and about others. Resolving conflict and managing tensions is not about solving the issue at hand. Not most times anyway. Alot of it is backing off and giving the other party some time to cool. The smart thing to do is to never react to a situation, but respond in a positive way.

"Err on the side of humour." =)

Every relationship has its sore spots and triggerpoint explosions afterall, and learning not to prod them is part and parcel of building up a close, strong and lasting relationship with another person.

And long 5 hour talks with alex in the quiet hours of post-midnight are marvellous too.

"friends are worth more than all the gold and silver in the world to me."

=)

5:47 pm